Jeena isi ka naam hai...

Hi friends..

This time, I m trying to put forward a quite serious subject in front of you people. That is something what we feel so frequently like we breathe.. When we suddenly encounter a little trickier situation, we often shoot few particular words so easily like "WHY DOES IT HAPPEN TO ME ONLY?" Isn't it??

At that time we thought that only we are the enemy of great almighty that's why we are suffering. Our minds tend to think that God is happy to all other persons except than us, literally we dont even think that we are blaming upon our Creator for being biased with us.. But before thinking like this, do you think about other people who are also suffering to the extent even more than yours? If not, then start doing this exercise from now onwards, believe me this will help you to come out of your problematic situation!

Actually this is something I realized just few days before. Some little problems regarding domains were making me panic, I mean that time I was blaming upon the God, fate, destiny or luck whatever was coming into my mind. After showing lots of patience; one of my closest friend then opened her mouth and gave me thousands of examples in front of mine and asked me to justify "WHOSE PAIN IS MORE?" That instant of time I was answerless. But it didn't changed my attitude(as per human nature!), some day the same reactions came out of me in some other context, that time another friend was with me and he did the same as the previous one had done. In fact he told me a little part of his life that was full of struggle even I read things like that in books only, seriously sounded like story of a HERO who got success after fighting against every odd.. After listening him, I thouht, where did my pain rank if I prepared a list of such pains..

I realized the best remedy to get rid of such thinking is to think about others' greives and really it works.. You'll feel that your living after including that pain is still better than that of lots of people.

See, what happens generally that we lost in so much of anxiety if one thing goes against our wish, we forget that still how much we have is something which is wanted by others and can be a huge matter of happiness if they get a little part of it!

I m just trying to say that have patience and satisfaction in your world, dont think that I m asking you to leave the ambitious attitude, no.. Go with your ambitions, work for acquiring those till you get success but BE HAPPY IN EVERY SITUATION without being bothered about the outcomes of your efforts. APPLY YOUR BEST, ONE DAY SURELY YOU"LL GET WHAT YOU THOUGHT TO GET... Yes, this is the best way to live the life, celebrate the good events and face the bad events with pateince-"JEENA ISI KA NAAM HAI.."