Hi friends..
This time, I m trying to put forward a quite serious subject in front of you people. That is something what we feel so frequently like we breathe.. When we suddenly encounter a little trickier situation, we often shoot few particular words so easily like "WHY DOES IT HAPPEN TO ME ONLY?" Isn't it??
At that time we thought that only we are the enemy of great almighty that's why we are suffering. Our minds tend to think that God is happy to all other persons except than us, literally we dont even think that we are blaming upon our Creator for being biased with us.. But before thinking like this, do you think about other people who are also suffering to the extent even more than yours? If not, then start doing this exercise from now onwards, believe me this will help you to come out of your problematic situation!
Actually this is something I realized just few days before. Some little problems regarding domains were making me panic, I mean that time I was blaming upon the God, fate, destiny or luck whatever was coming into my mind. After showing lots of patience; one of my closest friend then opened her mouth and gave me thousands of examples in front of mine and asked me to justify "WHOSE PAIN IS MORE?" That instant of time I was answerless. But it didn't changed my attitude(as per human nature!), some day the same reactions came out of me in some other context, that time another friend was with me and he did the same as the previous one had done. In fact he told me a little part of his life that was full of struggle even I read things like that in books only, seriously sounded like story of a HERO who got success after fighting against every odd.. After listening him, I thouht, where did my pain rank if I prepared a list of such pains..
I realized the best remedy to get rid of such thinking is to think about others' greives and really it works.. You'll feel that your living after including that pain is still better than that of lots of people.
See, what happens generally that we lost in so much of anxiety if one thing goes against our wish, we forget that still how much we have is something which is wanted by others and can be a huge matter of happiness if they get a little part of it!
I m just trying to say that have patience and satisfaction in your world, dont think that I m asking you to leave the ambitious attitude, no.. Go with your ambitions, work for acquiring those till you get success but BE HAPPY IN EVERY SITUATION without being bothered about the outcomes of your efforts. APPLY YOUR BEST, ONE DAY SURELY YOU"LL GET WHAT YOU THOUGHT TO GET... Yes, this is the best way to live the life, celebrate the good events and face the bad events with pateince-"JEENA ISI KA NAAM HAI.."
Friday, October 5, 2007
Uff ye Ashaayein...
Hi again,
One more deadly serious topic: EXPECTATIONS..In our world, there exist lots of types of expectations such as:
expectations of parents from child and vice-versa,
expectations of teachers from students,
expectations of friends/lover from eachothers,
expectations of employers from employees and vice-versa,
expectations of OURS FROM US or from ALMIGHTY
and so on...
But this is for sure that whatever the type of expectation is, it gives delightment when gets completed and similarly hurts a lot when it breaks..for example When we are watching say a Cricket-match of our country with some other team, we celebrates if we win otherwise it reduces our efficiency the whole day long as we didn't expect such result. It's not like that they were not keen to play and win but actually it puts them into pressure that so many people were expecting them to win.. Similarly a child couldn't perform his best in exams as their parents pressurized him to perform the best.
We just think of ourselves as it hurts a lot if an expectation couldn't be completed but do you imagine the condition of the person whom you expected, this event in fact demoralized him so much that for the next time he couldn't judge him the right person for the job!
It's a fact that people can't perform their best in such situations when they know about the expectations other people do have from them..it simply lessens the amount of natural way of performance. It's actually not bad to expect but that much of expectations serve what usage, which ultimately leading to sufferings? The best way is NOT TO EXPECT ANYTHING FROM ANYONE, JUST DO YOUR WORK & LET THEM OTHERS WORK THROUGH RIGHT PATH WITHOUT EVEN THINKING OF THE RESULT, if you'd have been invested the full efforts, no one can stop you to get the desired output!
It will give you more pleasure if you get something as a surprise that you weren't expecting more than you get something that you were already expecting.. Simply apply this funda to real life just for the sake of happy living without hurts..
One more deadly serious topic: EXPECTATIONS..In our world, there exist lots of types of expectations such as:
expectations of parents from child and vice-versa,
expectations of teachers from students,
expectations of friends/lover from eachothers,
expectations of employers from employees and vice-versa,
expectations of OURS FROM US or from ALMIGHTY
and so on...
But this is for sure that whatever the type of expectation is, it gives delightment when gets completed and similarly hurts a lot when it breaks..for example When we are watching say a Cricket-match of our country with some other team, we celebrates if we win otherwise it reduces our efficiency the whole day long as we didn't expect such result. It's not like that they were not keen to play and win but actually it puts them into pressure that so many people were expecting them to win.. Similarly a child couldn't perform his best in exams as their parents pressurized him to perform the best.
We just think of ourselves as it hurts a lot if an expectation couldn't be completed but do you imagine the condition of the person whom you expected, this event in fact demoralized him so much that for the next time he couldn't judge him the right person for the job!
It's a fact that people can't perform their best in such situations when they know about the expectations other people do have from them..it simply lessens the amount of natural way of performance. It's actually not bad to expect but that much of expectations serve what usage, which ultimately leading to sufferings? The best way is NOT TO EXPECT ANYTHING FROM ANYONE, JUST DO YOUR WORK & LET THEM OTHERS WORK THROUGH RIGHT PATH WITHOUT EVEN THINKING OF THE RESULT, if you'd have been invested the full efforts, no one can stop you to get the desired output!
It will give you more pleasure if you get something as a surprise that you weren't expecting more than you get something that you were already expecting.. Simply apply this funda to real life just for the sake of happy living without hurts..
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