Break Ups: Pain or An opportunity..

Hi friends,

This time I ve decided to write a blog on the topic which I was given in the GD sesion of my TCOM ie "Break Ups: Pain or An opportunity..". We had a healthy session over there but due to shortage of time we couldn't reach on a conclusion, this is what i am trying to cover here.
First of all I would like to clear one thing in the start that breakup isn't something related to Love relations specifically, it may also be associated with your jobs. Think it in a broader way!

It's really painful to have a breakup. As all believe that when we fall into something with heart(it might be a relation or a job, I already told you to think like that!), initially we applied all the potentials we had in our nerves just for the sake of the success of that thing but when it seems that things aren't getting done in the expected way then breakups occur and it is natural and obvoius then to feel the pain for humanes.

What is required in such kind of situations, is to analyse whether adjustment can stop the mishappenings of the things or not. Say, in love-relations whether the fights can be solved by talks or little bit of adjustment from both sides or not. Another example of the same, you get a job and by time you became quite emotionally attached with it but suddenly scenario becomes against you now think what is the options you have for rectifying the problem whether you should consult with your seniors or you should put some more efforts to avoid such things so that this natural phenomenon of suffering from that obvious pain can be ignored. If yes, try to solve it that way for the betterment of your mental peace. Else, assimilate it with a wounded organ of your body which isn't getting recovered and a single option is remained that is the replacement with the newer one by surgeries..

Thus when there is really no option left to overcome from the problem, look at the WORLD which then seems to be full of new and better oppounities because it's not feasible even to write that you want to live the rest of life for just the sake of living because as you want to live, you couldn't!

Be practical and enjoy each and every color of life..HAPPY LIVING!