Uff ye Ashaayein...

Hi again,

One more deadly serious topic: EXPECTATIONS..In our world, there exist lots of types of expectations such as:

expectations of parents from child and vice-versa,
expectations of teachers from students,
expectations of friends/lover from eachothers,
expectations of employers from employees and vice-versa,
expectations of OURS FROM US or from ALMIGHTY

and so on...

But this is for sure that whatever the type of expectation is, it gives delightment when gets completed and similarly hurts a lot when it breaks..for example When we are watching say a Cricket-match of our country with some other team, we celebrates if we win otherwise it reduces our efficiency the whole day long as we didn't expect such result. It's not like that they were not keen to play and win but actually it puts them into pressure that so many people were expecting them to win.. Similarly a child couldn't perform his best in exams as their parents pressurized him to perform the best.

We just think of ourselves as it hurts a lot if an expectation couldn't be completed but do you imagine the condition of the person whom you expected, this event in fact demoralized him so much that for the next time he couldn't judge him the right person for the job!

It's a fact that people can't perform their best in such situations when they know about the expectations other people do have from them..it simply lessens the amount of natural way of performance. It's actually not bad to expect but that much of expectations serve what usage, which ultimately leading to sufferings? The best way is NOT TO EXPECT ANYTHING FROM ANYONE, JUST DO YOUR WORK & LET THEM OTHERS WORK THROUGH RIGHT PATH WITHOUT EVEN THINKING OF THE RESULT, if you'd have been invested the full efforts, no one can stop you to get the desired output!

It will give you more pleasure if you get something as a surprise that you weren't expecting more than you get something that you were already expecting.. Simply apply this funda to real life just for the sake of happy living without hurts..