Hi..
"I didnt get What I DESERVED(or DESIRED)..."
This is something which is a very general problem from which every human being get suffered atleast once in his/her life! It doesn't mean that I am not one of them as I took this topic for writing; after all Im also a human so how can I be different from my species! Im just trying to elaborate it briefly.
This inferiority complex commonly develops when we get failed in a task which would be expecting to get completed as we felt that we donated a lot to the same...This is purely NATURAL, I mean Almighty made this function DEFAULT for us! The difference lies in the AFTER WARD REACTIONS of the suffered people; some of them take it seriously in a positive manner and some takes it otherwise.
What the necessary point here; which requires to get the attention is "DESIRE" is something quite different from "DESERVE". People often get confused between these two words! When they fail, they interchangeably use these words like " but I deserved it.." in place of "I desired it!"
They just blame upon the other things but they forget to PEEP INTO THEMSELVES for their faults behind the failure. They dont put much efforts as required for the desired result and make mistake of thinking themselves AS A DESERVING FOR THE DESIRED OUTPUT~!(Already told that I am also one of them...Oh God! please bless me the ability to follow what Im writing and suggesting others to do!)
Desires are the never ending process which goes on incrementing every moment, sometime desire of achieving something and the other time want of achiving the other things!
If you wish to get rid of this complex, You can do one thing... Simply SELECT THE PREFERENCE among your desires according to your CAPACITY of getting involved into that for the best results (in our context better to say for the desired result...)!
This will help you in the selection of a prior thing among the things, and also the best remedy for fighting with THIS VERY COMMON DESEASE...So take care and KEEP DISTANCE FROM THIS DESEASE!
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